Are you losing hope of finding the right girl for you because you are a plus-size man? Are you hesitant of asking a girl out on a 8 Dating Tips for Plus-Size Menc so lowly of yourself because of your particular body type? Well, don’t be. There is still hope that you can find the right girl for you. One who will understand you fully and love you for who you really are.
So, how do you do it? How do you start finding the right girl for you? And how do yo u make sure that once you see her, you can do what it takes to win her and keep her? Here are some tips that may help you:
- Build your self confidence. Wallowing in misery and self-pity over how you look will not get you anywhere. It will just pull you down. So, instead of letting your inferiority complex get the best of you, you should take a deeper look into yourself and acknowledge your strengths. Yes, you may not be as good-looking as Brad Pitt but hey, you surely should have something in you that can make women fall in love with you, right? Take stock of all your positive attributes and let it build your confidence.
- Look for someone you like to know better. If there isn’t someone in particular that you’d like to know better at this point in your life, then start looking! She may be someone you frequently see in your neighbourhood or someone at work. She may even be someone you just saw for the first time. If you’re up to it, you can also participate in online dating sites that specifically cater to big, beautiful women (BBW) and big, handsome men (BHM). That way, you’re sure that people who visit the site are looking for men who are just as wonderful as you are!
- Make the first move. Now that you’ve gained back your self confidence, the next thing you should do is to approach the girl you like. Start with a simple conversation. Let her know how a good conversationalist you are and show her your humorous side. Make her laugh. That can be the key for her wanting to know you better.
- Ask for a date. When things are getting a lot better between the two of you, you can then ask for a date. Hey, don’t get nervous now! You wouldn’t know if she’ll go with you if you don’t ask, would you?
- Dress up. So, she said yes? Lucky you! The next thing that you should do is to make sure you dress appropriately for your date. Don’t try to hide your fat – it will be a futile attempt and will just make you fell miserable. Just dress smart and be yourself. It will also be good if you can wear clothes that will accentuate your better features. For example, if you have gorgeous shoulder muscles, show it off!
- Flash your most attractive smile. Most women like men with warm, genuine smiles.
- Never give up. So, what happens if the girl you like just turned you down? Will you let it affect you and your newly gained confidence? You better not! There are a lot of fish in the ocean, so to speak, so just keep looking until you find the right one for you.
- Don’t go out with someone you don’t really like. Hey, you’re not that desperate, are you? Better save your time and effort for someone you really like.
Being a plus-size man is not a hindrance to finding someone who will really accept you for who you are. There are a lot of attractive women out there who are looking for big, handsome men (BHM) like you so just go out and find the one for you.
I hope you find something useful in this article,
Billy Baker
