Swinging Couples

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In a committed relationship but looking for some extra sexual excitement? Ever wondered what Swinging Couples, swingers clubs and wife swapping really mean?

Over 4 million people world wide are swingers, with over 3000 swingers clubs around the globe to join. Swingers can also meet through swingers personal ads, swingers lifestyle magazines, house parties and online swingers sites. Swinging has become increasingly popular across middle aged mainstream married, or committed couples.

‘Swinging’ is considered to mean a married or committed couple engaging in sexual activities with either another couple, multiple couples or with a single person. These events can occur at swingers clubs, private parties, private homes, hotels, and even at specific holiday resorts.

Traditionally, the average age of swingers is the mid 40’s, and all body types and ages are considered acceptable.

Swinger’s lifestyle or ‘The Lifestyle’ was started in the late 1990’s in London for the wealthy under 40’s. Up market venues were chosen, smart evening wear was the attire and photos were needed to demonstrate physical attractiveness. This concept quickly took off and is now popular in all parts of the world. Selective swinging refers to usually childless unmarried young graduates with average ages of late 20’s. Lifestyle swinging and selective swinging both encompass all swinging activities. These terms came into play mainly because younger couples didn’t care for the term swingers with its traditional meaning.

Swinging is thought to have started in the 1950’s in US military bases in California. The husbands all threw their car keys in a bowl and whoever belonged to the keys that the wife pulled out had her as their sexual partner for the night. Originally, these little get togethers were called key clubs. In the late 1950’s the media redubbed them wife swapping parties. Wife swapping is now considered an archaic term and is not technically accurate in covering all the sexual options of swinging couples.

Swinging sexual activities include: exhibitionism, having sex with your partner while being watched, voyeurism, and watching others having sex. Soft swinging, or soft swap, is kissing, stroking or oral sex with a 3rd or 4th person. This can also include threesomes or group sex but usually partners are not swapped. A full swap means having penetrative sexual intercourse with someone other than your committed partner. The original wife swap. A full swap can also mean a committed couple having sex with a bisexual female for a saucy threesome. Group sex is an all inclusive term for multiple partners having sexual intercourse in the same room or an orgy. While the sexual activities are happening in the same room this is referred to as same room swapping. When there are separate rooms involved it is then called play.

For those of you new to the game and a little shy, there are many swingers sites out there for you to check out. Many of them cater to those looking to heat up their relationship, as well as those singles who want to mingle with like minded individuals. Some of these sites offer adult personal ads, which can include video voice and pictures. They also offer swinger club listings, speed dating, video chat rooms, swinger club location listings, video messenger, and hot games. Some sites also offer offline swinger parties where you can take it at your own pace and comfort level. If this sounds like you then you should have a look at this swingers site.

Fancy a raunchy vacation with your partner? There are now sites out there catering for the couple who are into nude holidays or swinging holidays… Swingers resorts are in the Caribbean, Cancun, Mexico and various parts of Europe. These are aimed for couples only who enjoy exciting erotic lifestyles and all seem to involve destinations with beautiful white sandy beaches and large exotic looking swimming pools. Some of the resorts promise ‘non stop flat out parties’ for the more active. Many have various theme nights.

Many swingers feel that their chosen lifestyle increases the strength of their committed relationship, providing that the emotional bonds between the couple are still intact. In one survey, up to 70% of swingers claimed they had no problems with jealousy, with only 6% confessing that they did have a problem with the green eyed monster.

This may be just what you looking for! Swingers sites, swinger clubs, swinger resorts, swingers lifestyle, and swingers sex. Pack up your condoms and spice up your relationship now!

Have Fun, Coco Swan.

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