20 Romantic Tips for Your Dream Girl

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Guys! How do you keep that hot girl you are now dating? Love and dating advice made easy.

1: A perfect first kiss. Romantic Tips for Your Dream Girl A very light brush on the lips is better than a full on tongue kiss. Firstly, it gets her curious and wanting more. Keep something back for later.

2: Keep it slow. A great way to keep a girl’s attention is to inform her that you want to take it slowly. Wait until the 4th date to have sex. Some dates should just be cuddle dates. Women are so used to men just wanting them for sex, that only cuddling is a great way of getting close and holding her interest. You are also raising her anticipation levels for the big event

3: Never buy carnations. Carnations are cheap. They come over as cheap and from the corner store. They will never be seen as a romantic gift. You will never impress her with these. Save your money for something else. For great inspirational ideas, here is a fantastic flower site.

4: Compliments. Constantly tell her how sexy you find her. Most women are very insecure about the way they look. Women look at their imaginary physical flaws (butt too big, flabby thighs, whatever) and find it hard to believe that a man could find them sexually attractive. If you can improve her self-esteem she will be much more uninhibited in bed.

5: Scheduling: Use your organizer as a reminder to phone your girl unexpectedly. It’s easy to get caught up in work and before you know it the day, or week, has passed. Girls love a quick call or text to say ‘hi, thinking of you’.

6: Do I look fat in this? Never, ever hesitate. The only correct answer is ‘No.’
For a more genuine response try following up with a cuddle with your hands running appreciatively over her curves.

7: Dirty Talking in public. Whispering, explicitly, what you would like to do in a more private venue makes it more likely to happen. This is because sex talk in public is doubly arousing. The anticipation and naughtiness will have her all hot and bothered in no time.

8: Your necktie. This male clothing item is the favourite of all women. Take it off and use your imagination.

9: Fireplaces. All girls love romantic getaways involving fireplaces. Cosy rooms or cabins, dim lighting, big rugs on the floor, mulled wine or champagne and no sports on the television, all add to the romantic ambiance. What better way to spend a winter’s day?

10: Some ‘alone’ time. Arrange for her to go to a beauty salon, spa, or hair place. Tell her you are going to dinner after. When you collect her, take her to a restaurant attached to a romantic hotel. She will be feeling fantastic after her beauty treatments and all of these romantic gestures will totally overwhelm her. A sure fire way for a little romance. If this sort of night is going to accompany any sort of big declaration you could look at this site for jeweled inspirations.

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11: Kiss her more often. The most common complaint from women is that their guy does not kiss them enough. You should kiss your girl for more than 5 minutes while you are whipping off her clothes. Women like to be kissed through the whole encounter. Women love being kissed everywhere. Find her favourite places to be kissed and make sure you include them every time. Nuzzling, licking and soft nipping are usually appreciated as well. This sort of strategy will decrease the amount of headaches she will have.

12: Make her breakfast in bed. If you can’t cook, a cup of coffee and something in the toaster is still a great romantic thing to do.

13: Gifts. All women love romantic gifts. Try for thoughtful and creative. Show her you understand her by making it personal. The timing of the gift’s appearance could be crucial in how the evening turns out. Out of ideas? Chocolates are always appreciated, especially earlier on when you don’t want to make a big statement. Try this site for mind boggling ideas involving all things chocolate. Here is a great site selling artwork and posters. Watches are a fantastic idea as a gift because every time she looks at it she will be thinking of you. See this for an individual, hand crafted and reliable watch distributor. Perhaps you would rather buy her some perfume; here is a site that sells popular fragrances, heavily discounted with gift wrapping that you can send her as a total surprise.

14: Cherish her totally. All women have a little secret something about themselves that they are proud of. This normally does not involve a body part. It might be her individuality or her black sense of humour. You need to find out what this is, and love and appreciate it. This is when she will feel loved as an entire person and then you will have her sexually and emotionally. No idea what’s going on inside her head? Is there anything her father compliments her on that lights her up?

15: Makeup sex. Anger while fighting increases the testosterone in both of you. Increased testosterone means a stronger sex drive. If you haven’t been fighting, but want to get things a little heated and breathless, try a pillow fight or naked wrestling in the bed.

16: Go shopping. Having her guy with her in the mall makes her happy. Buying a new outfit puts girls in the mood for romance. Make sure that if you are going to go that you stay interested. Do not be half hearted, and do not wander off and get lost. Apparently, in Victoria’s Secret lingerie stores there are love seats in the dressing rooms. Do you need any more incentive than this to go to the mall? Don’t want to go the mall? Try this online lingerie site for some great ideas to gift wrap your girl.

17: Listening. You need to be able to listen to her properly to keep your romance alive. Here is how to do it successfully:
– Turn off the television. Yes, off, not just on mute.
– Listen to her.
– Repeat what she has said.
– Tell her that it makes sense or clarify if you do not understand.
– Turn television back on. Better yet, give her a cuddle.

18: Saying the words. The top 3 romantic things women love to hear from men are:
‘I have brought you a little something’
‘I can’t wait to see you’
‘I just love waking up with you.’

19: Friendship. You have to concentrate on the friendship side of the relationship as well, not just the sexual side. The more you get her mind, the more she will reward you.

20: Have a fantasy box. You and your girl both get to write down your own secret sexual fantasies. Fold them up and place them in your fantasy box. When you want to spice things up, pull one out for inspiration.

These romance tips will keep your dream girl coming back for more. Dating and romance just need a little thought and planning. A hot, wild date needs a little romance. If you are serious about finding, attracting and keeping a girl, as I said, watch the video and see why these free tips are a pretty good place to start.

Good luck and remember to persist.

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