Sexy Body Language – Why It Pays to Learn This Secret Language

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Have you ever wondered how to tell a guy that you’re interested in knowing Sexy Body Language him better without losing your dignity? How do you let him know what you feel about him without actually saying the words? Let’s face it – a lot of women are having this very same dilemma right now as you read this article. So, is there any way about it? Fortunately, there is.

Listen up, ladies. You can tell a guy that you like him without having to lose your lady-like manners. After all, it’s more exciting if the guy will do all the chasing, right? So, how exactly do you do it? Well, you can do it by learning the art of sexy body language!

According to Professor Albert Mehrabian in his book “Silent Messages“, almost 55% of our communication is non-verbal. No wonder, using sexy body language is recognized as one of the most effective tools of seduction.

Do you know that by learning how to send intimate signals to a guy, you can significantly improve your chances of being very popular in the dating scene and getting the man of your dreams? Plus, learning how to read the body language of other people (especially the guy you like) will allow you to understand what they wanted to let you know before they even say the words. Needless to say, mastering the art of sexy body language can play a great role in your love life.

So, how do you let that attractive guy know how you feel about him? Well, you can try these subtle flirtatious moves to get his attention:

  1. Wear a smile. A warm, infectious smile indicates a confident, friendly and welcoming nature. And do you know that guys find this quite sexy? So, wear a genuine smile at all times. You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results!
  2. Use your eyes to express how you feel. Maintain eye contact as you speak to him. Let your eyes do the talking. Use it to let him know that you are quite smitten with him and would definitely want to know him better. To get the best results, gaze at him for a slightly longer time, shift your gaze away and then look back. But please don’t stare. It may just scare him away. Guys want to do all the chasing and letting him know that you’re going nuts over him can dampen the thrill of the chase.
  3. Practice the graceful art of leaning. Do you know that people unconsciously lean their upper body toward the person in the room whom they find the most interesting? So, use it to your advantage. Lean toward him in the subtlest and most graceful way you can. Try leaning toward him as you speak. Well, you get the idea. And remember, don’t overdo it. Always maintain an air of mystery or else you’ll be blowing your chances of catching that guy away. You wouldn’t want that, would you?
  4. Always show “open gestures”. Crossing your arms or your legs can tell a prospective date that you do not welcome new people in your life and that you are not open to new relationships. To avoid sending this signal, always keep a relaxed, confident posture and wear your best smile always. Do this and you’ll attract even more guys into your life!
  5. Build intimacy through “innocent touching”. To build intimacy, you can try touching your potential date on all the “safe” areas. Lightly touching his arms, shoulders and wrists can work magic. But don’t just take my word for it. Try it!
  6. Be animated. Using hands gestures, varying the tone of your voice and laughing at his jokes can significantly increase your chances of luring him into your life.

Using the appropriate sexy body language signals can be your ticket to long lasting romance so start using it whenever possible.

Are you ready to start using the art of sexy body language after reading this article? I do hope so!

Happy dating,

Billy Baker

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