How to Read her Body Language Gestures

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Want to know what she is really thinking and feeling? Use her Body Language Gestures to figure her out. Understanding her body language has never been easier. Use this guide to read your girlfriend.

1: Playing with her Hair. When a woman starts playing with her hair she is sending strong sexual body language signals that she is available. Stroking her hair is a good sign, but the best of the lot is the hair flick. This is said to be the surest signal that she is sexually attracted to you.

2: Her Chest. A positive sign that you are doing it right is when her breasts start to enlarge. Women’s breasts will increase by as much as 25% when they are sexually aroused. When indulging in foreplay, a pinkish flush will colour the skin of her chest, this is known as a ‘sex flush’. This occurs as a result of changes in her blood pressure and circulation, as well as her respiration and pulse rates. This is her subtle sexual body language telling you that you could get lucky if you keep on with what you are doing.

3: Her Nose. A woman’s sense of smell is best first thing in the morning. Cooking her meal first thing in the morning is the best way to impress her with your cooking skills. Why? Because 90% of the taste of the meal is in the aroma. According to one study, warm banana bread is best if you have loving on your mind because it has an aroma that increases the blood flow to her vagina. Maybe you should clean your teeth as well, if you are feeling amorous.

4: Her Eyes. When she is sexually stimulated by you, a woman’s pupils will dilate. Subconsciously, her body is made to want to see more of whatever is pleasing her visually. To do this, her irises have to let in more light. At this point she is also starting to look hotter to you as well, as research has shown that guys are more attracted to girls with larger pupils. A win-win situation!

5: Her Neck: Playing with her necklace or stroking her neck are also very strong flirting body language signs, By doing these things she is drawing attention to her breasts. Necks and throats are lover’s only zones, and if she is also arching her neck the signal is even stronger.

6: Fluttering her Eyelashes. Look her in the eyes for a minute. She should be blinking about 15 times per minute. Research has shown that women on the Pill blink 32% faster than those who aren’t. How does this help you? Due to the shift in her hormone levels, women on the Pill are more sexually attracted to guys with rugged features and strong wide jaws. Strive for the confident, strong and hard image.

7: Her Ovaries. When a female is ovulating her sexual motivation is at its peak. This occurs two weeks after her period started. When a woman is most fertile, she is most libidinous. Careful.

8: Her Hands. Cold hands, warm heart. Does she always seem to have cold hands? Research shows that her hands are actually at least 3 degrees colder than yours. This drops even further when she is stressed. Women’s bodies have been programmed to keep their body core temperatures warmer than their extremities. The best way to warm up her hands is to wrap your arms around her waist, thereby increasing her body core temperature and allowing the blood to flow back into her hands.

9: Her Fingernails. Strong signs of depression and anxiety in women are body-focused repetitive behaviours such as nail biting and cuticle picking. Try not to nag her to stop; this can just make it worse. Try taking her hand, gently massage or squeeze it, and then keep holding her hand. You should be able to feel the tension leave her hand.

10: Her Brain. Women’s and men’s brains respond to alcohol differently. While men lose their inhibitions with alcohol, women tend to become more sedated. If you are wanting to get her in the party spirit you should turn up the music. Mid to fast tempo music will put her in the mood and have her feeling more sociable.

11: Her Mouth. When a woman starts to think sexual thoughts, she subconsciously touches her mouth. Licking her lips, sucking on the straw or spoon suggestively, and sticking things in her mouth are all indicators that she could be up for it. Eating, drinking, and smoking faster are also great body language gestures indicative of erotic thoughts.

12: The small of her Back. As a woman nears orgasm she will start to arch her back. Clasp her tightly around her waist and pay attention to just how much arching she is doing. Do not stop now. Keep everything going until she climaxes. Yours is coming.

Start observing! Read those body language signals to seduce your lover. If you have yet to bring her home to all this joyous activity, this is the most effective list of dating tips we know of. Watch the video and see.

Here’s looking at you, Coco Swan.


  • Jaycob

    I just went here to check something, i don’t think I’m any closer to when I have started. If on hello’s and good bye’s a relationships (this one is my cousin) were both adults. starts of as hugs on greetings and now she is pushing more towards just check kisses, She presents her cheek to me. I am a little confused is the relationship changing? and what do you think this means…

  • todd

    my girlfriend is always brushing up against me and she glances back at me. what does it mean?

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